Mobile Apps for Neurodiverse Couples

Recommended mobile apps to support neurodiverse relationships, from communication tools to mood tracking and organization apps

22
Curated Apps
8
Categories
12
Free Apps
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Relish

Relationship Coaching

★★★★☆ (4/5)
Subscription
iOS Android

Professional relationship guidance with neurodiversity-aware coaches

Best for: Couples seeking expert support
Why we recommend: Includes coaches trained in neurodiversity
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Forest

Focus & Productivity

★★★★★ (5/5)
Paid
iOS Android

Stay focused using gamification to grow virtual trees

Best for: ADHD partners who struggle with distractions
Why we recommend: Visual progress, satisfying rewards
P

Proloquo2Go

Communication Support

★★★★★ (5/5)
Paid
iOS

AAC (Augmentative and Alternative Communication) tool

Best for: Non-speaking or communication-challenged partners
Why we recommend: Industry standard, highly customizable
D

Daylio

Mood Tracker

★★★★☆ (4/5)
Free
iOS Android

Track mood patterns and triggers with simple interface

Best for: Understanding emotional patterns
Why we recommend: Simple interface, correlation tracking
C

Cozi

Family Organizer

★★★★☆ (4/5)
Free
iOS Android Web

Shared calendars, shopping lists, and schedules

Best for: Coordinating daily life
Why we recommend: Simple sharing, color-coding
G

Gottman Card Decks

Relationship Exercises

★★★★★ (5/5)
Paid
iOS Android

Conversation starters and relationship exercises

Best for: Deepening emotional connection
Why we recommend: Research-based, structured conversations
C

Crisis Text Line

Crisis Support

★★★★★ (5/5)
Free
SMS

Free crisis support via text message

Best for: Immediate mental health support
Why we recommend: Text-based support available 24/7
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MindShift

Anxiety Management

★★★★☆ (4/5)
Free
iOS Android

CBT-based anxiety relief techniques

Best for: Panic attacks and acute anxiety
Why we recommend: CBT-based, immediate techniques
L

Lasting

Couples Counseling

★★★★☆ (4/5)
Subscription
iOS Android

Self-guided couples therapy sessions with structured approach

Best for: Structured relationship improvement
Why we recommend: Evidence-based approach, progress tracking
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Love Nudge

5 Love Languages Tracker

★★★★☆ (4/5)
Free
iOS Android

Track and understand each other's love languages

Best for: Different expression preferences
Why we recommend: Visual tracking helps with processing differences
T

Todoist

Task Management

★★★★★ (5/5)
Free
iOS Android Web

Organize tasks with natural language processing and collaboration

Best for: Executive function support
Why we recommend: Intuitive interface, collaboration features
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Brain Focus

Pomodoro Timer

★★★★☆ (4/5)
Free
iOS Android

Time management using Pomodoro technique with customizable intervals

Best for: Time blindness and hyperfocus
Why we recommend: Customizable intervals, break reminders
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Sensory App House

Sensory Regulation Tools

★★★★☆ (4/5)
Paid
iOS Android

Various sensory regulation tools for different needs

Best for: Sensory processing needs
Why we recommend: Multiple apps for different sensory needs
A

AutiPlan

Daily Planning

★★★★☆ (4/5)
Subscription
iOS Android

Visual scheduling and routine management for structure

Best for: Structure and predictability
Why we recommend: Visual schedules, routine building
S

Sanvello

Anxiety & Depression Support

★★★★☆ (4/5)
Free
iOS Android

CBT-based anxiety and depression support with coping tools

Best for: Managing anxiety and low moods
Why we recommend: Evidence-based techniques
H

Headspace

Meditation & Mindfulness

★★★★★ (5/5)
Subscription
iOS Android

Guided meditation and mindfulness for stress reduction

Best for: Stress reduction and emotional regulation
Why we recommend: Relationship-specific content available
A

AnyList

Shared Lists

★★★★☆ (4/5)
Free
iOS Android

Grocery lists and meal planning with voice input

Best for: Executive function support
Why we recommend: Voice input, real-time sync
T

Tody

Cleaning Schedule

★★★★☆ (4/5)
Paid
iOS Android

Household chore management with visual progress tracking

Best for: Breaking down overwhelming tasks
Why we recommend: Visual progress, flexible scheduling
P

Paired

Relationship Quiz

★★★★☆ (4/5)
Free
iOS Android

Daily questions and relationship insights for couples

Best for: Learning about each other
Why we recommend: Neurodiversity-friendly format
i

iPassion

Date Ideas

★★★★☆ (4/5)
Paid
iOS Android

Date night and activity planning to overcome decision paralysis

Best for: Overcoming planning paralysis
Why we recommend: Sensory-considerate activity options
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PTSD Coach

PTSD Support

★★★★☆ (4/5)
Free
iOS Android

PTSD symptom management with evidence-based techniques

Best for: Trauma-related symptoms
Why we recommend: Developed by VA, evidence-based
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Love Days

Relationship Counter

★★★★☆ (4/5)
Free
iOS Android

Track relationship milestones and celebrate positive moments

Best for: Celebrating positive moments
Why we recommend: Visual reminders of positive history

Why should you use an app in your couple?

Enhance your relationship with carefully selected mobile apps designed to support neurodiverse couples in communication, organization, mood tracking, and daily life management.

All apps displayed above are carefully curated and organized by category. Use the filter buttons to find apps specific to your needs.


🎯 App Selection Tips

Start Small

  • Choose 1-2 apps maximum to begin
  • Focus on your biggest challenge first
  • Give each app at least 2 weeks to see benefits
  • Delete apps that don’t work after a fair trial

Involve Both Partners

  • Discuss app choices together
  • Respect if one partner doesn’t want to use certain apps
  • Find apps that work for both neurotypes
  • Consider individual apps alongside couple apps

Consider Your Specific Needs

  • Processing style: Visual vs. auditory vs. kinesthetic learners
  • Communication style: Text vs. voice vs. visual

🔄 App Updates & Recommendations

This list is updated regularly as new apps become available and based on community feedback.

Have a favorite app we missed? Contact us with your recommendations!

Disclaimer: App availability and pricing may change. We are not affiliated with any app developers and receive no compensation for recommendations. Always try free versions first when available.

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